Sacred Choices and Abortion:
Ten New Things to Think About
Discussion & Action Guide
A choice for abortion
is a sacred choice; it is a pro-life choice.
Produced by The Religious Consultation
2005 copyright, The Religious Consultation
The video/DVD Sacred Choices and Abortion: Ten New
Things to Think About is
part of the Sacred Choices Initiative that is a worldwide
issues campaign aimed
at expanding scholarly and lay perceptions of the positions
of the world's
religions on contraception and abortion. The goal is to change
the discourse on
family planning and open the way to a more informed and humane
woman's rights within a religious context. The campaign is
organized by a group
of international religious scholars from various religions
known as The Religious
Consultation on Population, Reproductive Health and Ethics.
This remarkable documentary explores the "big lie"
religion is opposed to a
woman's right to choose. Ten insightful segments feature scholars
faith traditions-Christian, Muslim and Jewish-as well as women
whose lives have been forever changed by abortion.
Both thoughtful and dramatic, Sacred Choices and Abortion
the debate over reproductive rights in our highly religious
culture. It has been
said that those who teach religious education need to carry
their sacred texts in
one hand and the newspaper in the other. This must be done
so that religion can
address, interpret and mediate contemporary society and culture
with faith. The
future of the world depends on our doing this.
In many ways the use of Sacred Choices and Abortion
is like working from the
inside out. It is a tool to foster understanding, create confidence,
and to inspire
engaging dialogues with less than like-minded people. It seems
clear that in
order for abortion to remain an option the public will need
to mature in the ways
in which it converses about the issue. At the same time the
needs to admit to grey areas, which nicely models deeper thinking
for the "other
side" as well. We cannot move from debate to policy unless
our dialogue grows
deeper, remains genuine, and is fully respectful of the sacred
choices that we
have. Dialogue does not happen in protest marches or petition
happens in living rooms, churches and synagogues--in quiet
across this country. We see the viewing of Sacred Choices
and Abortion as
inspiring, nurturing and facilitating these conversations.
The facilitator of the Sacred Choices and Abortion
screening might remind
people that the DVD presents a religiously based pro-choice
view that has not
been widely heard. One of the purposes of showing it is to
allow people to hear
this view, even if they do not agree with it. The facilitator
might say that it is
unhealthy when an important issue has people so divided that
dialogue about it. The facilitator might also add that he/she
will be neutral in their
facilitation of the discussion.
In order to encourage dialogue the facilitator might ask the
viewers what kind of
"talking rules" will help them have a rich and caring
conversation. You might want
to pass an object around as a "talking stick" and
set a time limit for speaking.
Viewers should be encouraged to speak only for themselves.
the main goal, not persuasion.
Suggestions on How To Watch Sacred Choices and Abortion
Thomas Groome writes that "naming your own knowing"
is the key to
transformation. This implies that the viewer comes to his/her
instead of having the expert who tells them what to think.
We all have our own
experiences with faith, our religious upbringing or lack of
it, and how sex and
sexuality were introduced to our lives. It is important that
experiences are not discounted but heard. In following this
philosophy of a gentle
facilitation you might try the following steps. (For more
detailed questions for
discussion use please see section, Let's Talk.)
1. Begin with a simple prayer that helps welcome the participants
and sets a
quiet, thoughtful tone.
2. Ask participants what they already know about abortion rights
How do they feel about abortion? Gently encourage personal
3. Watch Sacred Choices and Abortion.
4. For a quick emotional read of the room ask participants to
share two words
that come to mind after watching the film. This gives viewers
a way to
immediately respond and allows everyone a chance to be heard.
5, Ask participants if attitudes and beliefs have changed. How
have they been
stirred? How and why have they stayed the same?
6. Ask them if they will move differently in the world? Will
they do something
differently about the issue of abortion?
7. Have at the ready a variety of resources to help instigate
The next section includes statements, facts, and questions drawn
"chapters" in the DVD. The following section, Let's
Talk, includes theological,
social change and personal questions that are extensions from
Sacred Choices and Abortion
Ten New Things to Think About
#1 Mary Had A Choice
This is the big lie-that many religions are opposed to women
having the right to
choose an abortion.
How is free will the doctrine of your faith community?
In what ways do women make moral decisions? How are women moral
For Christians what does it mean that God asked Mary if she
would bear Jesus?
#2 Religions are pro-choice
a well kept secret
Are you surprised at the number of religious organizations
and faith communities
that support keeping abortion legal?
In history some religions were clearly pro-choice. Can you give
In the Catholic Church many scholars believed that life did
not begin until
In Moslem historical tradition a fetus has a soul after 120
days consequently a
woman could have an abortion before 120 days. Modern day Moslem
theologians say an abortion is acceptable in cases of rape.
Most Rabbinical authorities would say that life begins when
the majority of the
fetus emerges from the birth canal. In the Jewish Reform movement
psychological health issues are recognized.
What do you think of looking at the psychological health of
a woman and not just
her physical health?
The bible never mentions abortion.
How can a fetus be more important than a woman? Is pregnancy
a means to an
What profound differences are there between a fetus and a baby?
#3 When abortion was illegal women died.
What would society look like if abortions were illegal and
birth control was hard to
What would your daughter, your niece, your grandchildren's lives
be like if
abortion were illegal?
How would this impact your sons and grandsons?
Think about the wide spread repercussions that will happen if
illegal. Will children be left motherless like Sharon McGee?
Will children be born
who are given less care than they need? Will there be more
incidents of spousal
abuse-what do you think?
What do you think would happen to a healthy understanding of
sexuality in our
society if abortion was illegal?
#4 Women are not interested in leaving the church.
How does abortion impact the relationship between women and
How can faith communities make it known that they welcome women
had abortions or who are considering an abortion?
#5 Religious people disagree--- often quite strongly
Is there irony in an anti-abortionist activist using violence
to make their point?
This chapter looks at anti-abortion extremists and how historically
not such a controversial topic. Now the Christian Right has
adopted this issue as
their issue. Some of their argument is that they believe that
only God creates
and thus as humans we cannot take life away-that is only God's
do you think of their argument?
Do you agree that it is a process of selection as to what to
pick out of the bible to
support your point of view?
#6 Pregnancy is at least a 25-year condition.
Bearing a child against one's will, is that enslavement?
How do you feel towards Lisa and her decision to have an abortion?
What does Daniel Maguire mean when he says that the only good
abortion is a
Did Mindy's decision resonate with you? What about Iraela and
#7 A nine year old girl can get pregnant
What do you think of the Catholic Church's stand regarding
Rosa, the 9-year-old
What could have been another way for the Catholic Church to
think about this
What actually makes sense to do in a child's forced pregnancy?
beliefs be weighed against common sense?
Could this happen here---where a child who is raped and pregnant
cannot get an
Who has the right to make a decision for a child?
What is your gut reaction to a 9-year-old child getting pregnant?
What is the best way to protect a child who is pregnant?
How did Rosa's case create a dilemma for all Catholics?
The father of Rosa said, "Only God knew how much we were
does this quote expand and deepen the discussion?
#8 Organized religion can promote guilt or healing
The church has inculcated the very guilt it points to in women
who have had
Many women who have abortions are very spiritual-but yet they
cannot turn to their faith community.
Is it in a woman's best interest for a woman to keep her abortion
What will empower women to talk about their abortions?
Does your faith community listen to women's needs and concerns?
Are women's issues discussed openly in your congregation?
This section also includes some ideas for healing like using
planting, letters of goodbye and prayers. Can you think of
#9 It is a battle for religious freedom.
Why should we ask the government to take away our responsibility
these kinds of important decisions? We don't ask the government
whether we are morally correct in participating in war, do
we? We have a
mechanism where the law recognizes different beliefs about
killing in wartime.
Any attempt to say that abortion is murder even though Jewish
Law does not say
this is an attempt to restrict freedom of religion.
How can one religious interpretation wipe out other religious
Does that not go against separation of church and state?
#10 A choice for an abortion is a sacred choice.
Texts in the Quran suggest that humans need to make decisions
God loves us unconditionally and gives us the right to make
decisions about our
We need to speak up about abortion. We cannot put this back
into a box hoping
that it will go away. We should lift the self-censure we have
placed on ourselves.
A choice for abortion is a sacred choice; it is a pro-life
How can one actually answer when life begins? How do you answer
Can someone believe that life begins at conception and still
rights? What supports that thinking?
What is the difference between a potential life and a living
What about the great big lie-that religion does not support
the right to have an
abortion? What do you think of that?
How do women make moral decisions?
How does free will play a part in understanding the right to
have an abortion?
Why do you think that the bible never speaks to abortion?
How can a faith community invite women to come to them for compassionate
What signals can community leaders give in their sermons, homilies,
that tell the congregation that they will be supportive of
the woman's situation?
What signals do you need?
What should the role of your faith community be in this issue?
Social Change Questions
There are at least seventy-five nations in the world that
have legalized abortion.
Abortion is not considered a political issue; it is considered
a private decision for
women to make. Why do you suppose that our country is so different?
How much does the argument over the separation of church and
your thinking about this issue?
Thirty three percent of women will have an abortion in their
Guttmacher Institute) Where are these women in the abortion
debate? How can
we help them speak up?
How important do you think the abortion issue is to most Americans?
think the issue influences how individuals vote?
If the right to have an abortion is taken away what will happen
in terms of illegal
abortions and the safety of women?
How can America process the question in a way that is healing
and not divisive?
What are some connections between the abortion issue and the
right to die?
What does "quality of life" mean to you?
Does the issue of population control come into play for you?
What do you think life would be like in the US if there was
Why is there now a movement to prevent the use of the birth
Is being forced to bear a child a form of enslavement?
What do you think of the film's assertion that pro-life advocates
have an antiwoman
How can those who oppose the right to abortion support war?
What does "pro choice" mean to you?
What does "pro-life" mean to you?
How can we refresh the language that is used in this controversy?
Do we still
want to use "battle," "procedure," "woman's
choice?" Don't both sides have claim
to "pro-life" and "right to life?"
Are there just two sides to the issue or are there really more
grey areas, and grey
responses than the media and our leaders prod us to think?
In your mind, what are some of these grey areas when it comes
to the issue of
If a woman is raped and becomes pregnant should society force
her to continue
the pregnancy by taking away her right to have an abortion?
Are there connections between the number of abortions in our
society and the
lack of financial and structural support that poor women and
Talking with friends and family even one on one can help bridge
experiences that are part of our healing and coming to terms
with the issue.
In what ways has your religious upbringing promoted guilt in
your life? In what
ways has your religious upbringing promoted healing in your
Is pregnancy the essential problem, or is it the range of circumstances
woman might find herself in? What about those circumstances?
Do they include
an unwilling partner, medical issues, age and maturity, support
of other children,
mental health issues, and domestic violence?
Have you ever known someone who had a child when they did not
want to or
were not ready? What happened?
Have you known someone who has had an abortion? What was the
consequence? How did it positively and or negatively impact
If you have had an abortion how has the information from the
If you have had an abortion how do you feel about it now?
What are some of the reasons that you or someone you know has
Under what circumstances would you choose abortion? Can we really
we might react when faced with this decision?
How does stigma affect women who have had an abortion? What
are ways that
we can combat stigma in our own communities?
What does post abortion spiritual health look like?
How can we encourage women to share their abortion stories?
What kinds of
support can we give them?
How can we help pro-choice people in our community feel proud
to speak out
about their beliefs?"
What are some of the connections between issues of sexuality
and abortion for
How does the policy stance of your faith community impact your
Has the issue of abortion impacted your relationship with your
How can communities of faith support women who find themselves
How can communities of faith support the partners of the women
Invite women from another congregation in your community to
a woman's tea to
discuss the issue on a personal level. In the interest of
size this gathering should
be no larger than seven or eight participants. Facilitation
should be neutral. If
participants find it helpful and healing continue to expand
to other groups and or
keep the same group meeting regularly.
Volunteer to show Sacred Choices and Abortion and talk about
with your local reproductive health care clinic staff. Help
them to know that there
is a spiritual and religious tradition that does not oppose
Out of the Church Closet
Ask local pro-choice activists to come out of their religious
them to see that their religious beliefs compliment the effort
to keep abortion safe
and legal. Help them to lobby the head of the church to present
a sermon or
homily about this sacred right.
Be Our Own Madison Avenue
What are some new tag lines that would be effective to deepen
the debate? If
you create a good one share it with others.
Pro-choice, Sacred Choice
Keep the right for sacred choice
My church is Pro-choice
Build a Bridge
Have people on both sides of the issue create a large poster
reasons why they believe what they do. Ask them to use shades
of gray, black
and white, to symbolize the potency of their arguments. Hang
them side by side
for a focus to informal conversations.
Grab a recorder, or video camera and take oral histories of
women who have had
abortions, both illegal and legal abortions. You could also
do the same with men
who have partnered with women who had abortions. Set up a
screening in your
church, synagogue or mosque.
Organizations and websites
The Religious Consultation on Population, Reproductive Health
and Ethics www.religiousconsultation.org
NARAL Pro-Choice America
The Abortion Conversation Project
Religious Coalition for Reproductive Choice
Abortion Clinic Staff Blog (Note - this is not a PP site)
Resources and discussion
Women tell their stories
National After Abortion Talk Line
Backline: Decision Making and Post Abortion Support
Online magazine of abortion stories (Spanish/English) http://www.ourtruths.org
Catholics for a Free Choice
The Alan Guttmacher Institute
Multiple perspectives presented in thoughtful ways http://womensissues.about.com
Ayn Rand and Capitalism Magazine-conservative pro-choice response
Unitarian Universalist Washington Office For Advocacy
Abortion in America: The Origin and Evolution of National
1900 by James C. Mohr
Abortion, My Choice, God's Grace, Christian Women Tell Their
A Question of Choice, by Sarah Weddington
Bearing Right: How Conservatives Won the Abortion War
Beggars and Choosers: How the Politics of Choice Shapes Adoption,
Abortion, and Welfare in the United States by Rickie Solinger
Behind Every Choice Is a Story, by Gloria Feldt
Contraception and Abortion from the Ancient World to the
by John M. Riddle
Educating for Life: a Spiritual Vision for Every Teacher
and Parent, by
In Good Conscience, by Anna Runkle
Sacred Choices: The Right to Contraception and Abortion in
Religions, by Daniel Maguire
Sacred Rights edited by Daniel C Maguire
The Healing Choice: Your Guide to Emotional Recovery After
by Candace DuPuy, PhD, and Dana Dovitch
The Story of Jane: The Legendary Underground Feminist Abortion
by Laura Kaplan
The War on Choice: The Right-Wing Attack on Women's Rights
to Fight Back, by Gloria Feldt
I Had an Abortion, a new documentary about abortion and the
made that decision. Contact: firstname.lastname@example.org
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